Want to know how to get someone you like to be interested in you, too? This article shares five tips for being more attractive and magnetic to potential romantic partners.
- Don’t play games by acting uninterested – show you like them
- Have high engagement but low attachment (flirt without being too intense)
- Be selective and make them earn your interest
- Stand firm on your standards and boundaries
- Live an exciting life you’re passionate about
Are you interested in learning more about these magnetic tips? Keep reading!
Be Interested, Not Just Interesting
Many people think they must constantly impress or entertain someone interested in. But that can come across as trying too hard. A better approach? Be genuinely interested in the other person. Ask them questions about their life, values, and interests. Everyone loves talking about themselves, so showing sincere curiosity makes you more attractive. Focus less on performing and more on learning about them.
Flirt Freely, But Don’t Get Too Attached
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It’s good to make your romantic interest obvious through flirting and high-energy engagement. But don’t get so attached that they feel suffocated. Stay unattached to whether it works out between you two or not. Getting overly invested too soon really scares people away. Flirt and express your interest, but give them space and act like you have other dating options, too.
For example, one coaching client felt free enough to compliment a good-looking guy at the store, saying, “You are extremely attractive.” He ended up giving her his number!
Be Selective About Who You Date
When you show someone a romantic interest, balance it out by being selective. Make it clear you’re attracted to them specifically, not just anyone. Say things like ‘It takes a really special person to win my heart” or “I don’t rush into relationships.” This lets them know they’ll have to earn your interest over time. People are more drawn to those with high standards.
Own Your Standards
Part of being selective is having firm personal standards you stick to. Decide your boundaries for things like:
- How soon you’re comfortable being physically intimate
- When you’ll agree to be an exclusive couple
- Allowing them into your personal space and routines
Holding your standards filters out the wrong people who won’t respect your boundaries. The right person will be attracted to you, honouring yourself.
Live an Exciting, Passionate Life
People are drawn to those with energy and enthusiasm for life outside of dating. When you actively pursue hobbies, interests, and experiences that excite you, your entire vibe becomes more magnetic. Conversations will be about your amazing life, travels, and new adventures rather than boring small talk. An alive, passionate person is simply more attractive to be around.
Conclusion
The five keys to getting someone interested are:
- Be interested in them, ask questions
- Flirt, but don’t get overly attached
- Be selective in your interest
- Stick to your standards
- Live an exciting life you’re passionate about
Which of these magnetic tips could help improve your dating life? With the right mindset, you can naturally attract partners who energize and inspire you.
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