Some people think men don’t feel emotions deeply or want real romance. But that’s not true – men believe in love just as strongly as women.
Here are the key signs a man will show when he profoundly loves you:
- He’ll use “we” language instead of “I/me.”
- He’ll say, “I’m here for you,” and prove it
- He’ll bring you little gifts and say, “I got this for you.”
- He’ll tell you, “I’ve never met anyone like you.”
- He’ll share his worries, being open and vulnerable
- He’ll admit, “I’m scared to lose you.”
- He’ll say, “I love you.”
So, how can you really tell if a man’s love is deep and genuine? Keep reading to understand these signs.
Using “We” Language
When a man loves you, his words shift from “I/me” to “we/us/our.” For example, he might say “Our favorite restaurant” instead of “My favorite place.” He sees you as his partner going through life together.
If he starts using more “me” language after previously saying “we,” it could mean he’s pulling away from the relationship. Pay attention to those small language cues.
Showing Up For You
A man who sincerely loves you will say, “I’m here for you,” and back it up. When you’re stressed or need help, he wants to be the one you can rely on. Even for little things, he’ll show up and try to add value to your life because it makes him feel good to support you.
Thinking Of You
The phrase “I got this for you” is significant, even if the “this” is just a small gift. It means you were on his mind when you weren’t around. He might bring you a souvenir from a trip or make you something creative. It’s an expression that he cares about you.
Finding You Unique
When a man says, “I’ve never met anyone like you,” it means your unique traits and connection stand out to him. He understands there’s no one else quite like you. I appreciate that he sees how special you are.
Being Vulnerable
A man who sincerely loves you will open up and say, “I’m worried about…” or “I’m scared about…” He’ll share his vulnerabilities, fears, and stresses, which is a huge sign of trust. Be patient if this makes you uncomfortable at first.
Fearing Your Loss
The words “I’m scared to lose you” translate to “I love you with all my heart.” He sees you as an irreplaceable part of his life and vision for the future. Losing you would be devastating.
Saying Those Words
Although it may seem obvious, many people never directly told their loved ones “I love you” growing up. So cherish those three simple but powerful words. Let them land deeply when he says them.
Conclusion
From “we” language to admitting fears, the way a man speaks offers vast clues about the depth of his love. Listen for these signs that he has opened his heart entirely to you and the relationship.
What other phrases would you want a man to say to show his deep love for you? Share your thoughts!
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